Life Outside the Pages

These stories are about my everyday life, which can be as ridiculous from time to time as anyone else's.

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    Post Show Let-down!

    It’s a thing!

    Something I do to have fun when I’m not writing or working at my day job as a newspaper editor is direct and act in community theater productions.

    I’ve loved being on stage, pretending to be someone else, since first grade when I played a Cookie Child in an elementary school production of “Hansel & Gretel”.

    My next opportunity came in fifth grade, when I was one of the Ladies of the Beautification Society in a production of “The Saga of Dead Dog Gulch”. I can still sing the song! You can ask next time we meet.

    Fast forward to high school and college, and I was either in or working behind the scenes of every show I could, which usually meant twice a year.

    Years later, after I was married and had children of my own I got back into community theater, with my kids for many years, and then by myself. I played parts large and small in shows such as “Carousel”, “The Sound of Music”, “Seven Brides for Seven Brothers”, “Annie”, “The Little Mermaid”, “Shrek”, “Beauty & The Beast”, “Nunsense”, “Mama Mia”, “Mary Poppins”, and many more. I also spent years playing all kinds of parts in a local outdoor drama depicting the Passion of the Christ, called “The Living Word”. I loved every minute of all of it!

    Eventually I decided to learn to produce shows, and then to direct. Now I direct (and sometimes) produce at least one play per year, often playing a part as well.

    It’s my playground! I love it. One of the things I enjoy most is providing a safe place for people young and old to come have fun. It’s a non-judgmental space open to people of all kinds, where it doesn’t matter what religion you are, or what political party you belong to, or what race you are, or what socio-economic group you come from, or anything else.

    I just finished a production of “You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown”, in which I played the crabby Lucy VanPelt. What a fun part in a show full of challenging, amazing music! The best part of this show, in my opinion, is that it consisted of a mostly senior-citizen cast. The joke where Linus tells Charlie Brown that it is his grandfather’s birthday, and marvels that at 63 years old his grandfather is still alive, was especially amusing since the Linus delivering the line is himself 65.

    Yesterday was our final show, and for the first time since mid-August, I don’t have to go to play practice three or more times per week.

    The show came at a good time for me. As many of you know, I lost my oldest child to a long-term illness in late July. It was good for me to have something to do. And the small cast show full of people who have grown to be my friends over many years of doing theater together, and my brother, who played Charlie Brown, was just what I needed.

    If I was having a tough day, they didn’t judge. And everyone was so experienced they all helped this show along. I wasn’t left to direct it all by myself. As always when I do a musical, I have someone much more qualified run music rehearsals ( in this case, a wonderful woman who also conducts our live orchestra), and teach choreography. I am NOT a good choreographer, and I am NOT a good dance teacher.

    So I have to credit the whole cast and my music and dance folks for sort of running this particular show by committee. I’m usually a very decisive director who doesn’t need much input from others. That was NOT the case this time.

    I’m blessed to have such amazing people to work with.

    At the beginning of this post I mentioned Post Show Let-Down. To explain, whenever a show closes out, the first thing I feel is relief. I have my life back!

    This is followed by something commonly known in the community theater world as post show let down, or post show depression. It’s a real thing, where actors feel suddenly bereft because the social whirl of putting on a show is over, and suddenly they aren’t seeing the people they’ve spent so many hours with over the last several months.

    It generally lasts about two weeks, at least for me. Coming into this holiday season, the first without my oldest daughter, will be difficult. I’m glad I had this show and these friends to help me up to this point.

    Now I must forge ahead in healing with my family, and by myself. It’ll be okay. I’m blessed with a wonderful, supportive family; with amazing friends; with a terrific church community; with excellent co-workers. But still, I think Thanksgiving and Christmas will be tough. A lot of “firsts” to get through in the year after losing someone dear.

    But I just signed a new book contract, and I have to write a play this winter that I will direct and act in next fall. So, life goes on.

    Post show let-down is a thing, but all actors know it’ll pass soon enough. And there’s always another play coming up! If you’re looking for a wonderful hobby that will bring you out of your shell and introduce you to many new people, community theater could be right for you.

    Don’t want to get on stage? No problem. All theaters are looking for people who like to work behind the scenes building sets, sewing costumes, painting scenes, running tech, organizing props, etc.

    Trying to find a community theater? In Ohio, we have the Ohio Community Theater Association. I’m willing to bet most states have one. Check Facebook. You can just type ‘community theater’ into the search bar, and see what pops up.

    As we say in the theater, break a leg!

    The largely senior cast from “You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown”. I’m in the center in the blue dress, playing Lucy.
    My brother, Alex, as Charlie Brown, and me as Lucy.
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    Miss Muffet’s New Kayak has Arrived!

    Miss Muffet, the rescued cinnamon roll dog toy who has become author Anne Blackburne’s buddy and fellow voyager, was so impressed by Anne’s new foldable kayak that she wanted a kayak all her own.

    So Anne ordered her the Bark 5000 kayak, complete with squeaky function and extra crinkliness. Miss Muffet waited impatiently until the tidy little craft arrived.

    She wasted no time unboxing it and getting it out on the lake. As you see here in this unretouched photo, she is paddling (we assume, since she has no arms) slightly turbulent waters with a threatening looking sky in the distance.

    Be careful, Miss Muffet! Where’s your life jacket??

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    My Favorite Review Ever

    Did you know that authors depend upon good reviews to help sell their books? It may seem obvious; good reviews may convince individuals to purchase books, but they also move books up in rankings in various sales venues, and can even help get an author onto a best seller list.

    This is why you may have seen authors ask their readers to take a few minutes to post a review if they enjoyed a book. It doesn’t need to be long. Simply saying, “I loved this book!” and giving it 4 or 5 stars will help out your favorite authors.

    Of course, all authors dread getting the other kind of reviews; negative ones posted by people who did NOT like their book.

    Generally speaking, negative reviews should not be posted simply because you didn’t enjoy a story that was well written and correctly presented.

    What I mean is, if a story is advertised as being “spicy”, and you prefer to read books that are “clean” or “cozy”, meaning no sexual content, overt violence, cussing, etc., then it’s not the author’s fault that you picked up their clearly labeled book, were shocked by the content, and hated the book. It wouldn’t be fair in that case to give the author a bad review. Instead, just walk away. Leave no review. Move on to another book more to your taste.

    On the other hand, if a book is full of sexy scenes after being promoted by the author as being Christian romance or a cozy mystery – both of which are understood NOT to contain spice – one might suspect intentional misrepresentation, and that’s reason for a poor review. Or if a book is just a hot mess – as if the author didn’t even bother to try and eliminate typos, grammatical errors, spelling errors or worse, major plot issues, that could be a reason for a poor review.

    But even then, a 3-star rating (out of five) is punishment enough for most author errors. One-or-two-star ratings are just unnecessary; and sometimes downright mean!

    A one-star rating can crush an author’s spirit, making him second guess his ability to write and whether he should just give up and pack it in. You can see why leaving such a review requires some very careful thought. Author egos are fragile enough as it is!

    But I recently received a one-star rating that I simply had to laugh at. I won’t reveal the poster’s name or even where the review was posted, but I’ll share what they wrote in a review of my recent release, “Mary’s Calico Hope”, from Barbour Publishing’s Heart of the Amish series:

    Subject Line: Too expensive!

    Review: Have not read it. Not going to read it though I really want to. I can’t believe it costs $11.50 for 258 pages.

    That’s it! This person left a one-star review for my book, and hadn’t even read it!

    A major rule for authors is to never, never engage with readers about their reviews. All an author can accomplish by taking this road is to create bad feelings and lose readers. Worst case, it could end their writing career.

    In fact, conventional wisdom holds that the smartest thing an author can do is to avoid looking at their reviews. Obviously, I didn’t follow that to the letter of the law. But I don’t make a habit of reading reviews. Sometimes someone has something less than lovely to say, and if you see it, that’s your own fault.

    I was looking at performance ratings on a website, and it was just THERE. So I read it. And I’m glad I did, because it’s just ridiculous, and gave me the idea for this article.

    I just shook my head and laughed at this review. But if I were to talk with this person, I’d inform them that I don’t set the prices for my books. Also, the going price is closer to $15 . . . $11.50 was a sale price. Lol. And finally, why don’t they just get a library card and read it for free?

    A word about pricing: If I pay $15 or even more for a book I want, I look at it like this – I’ll be getting up to 10 hours of entertainment for that money. Viewed that way, it’s a bargain! Also, consider the hundreds of hours the author spent writing, rewriting, proofing, editing and marketing the book. Then consider that most authors receive rather modest advances – or none at all if they are self-published. And that most authors never earn out their advance, meaning they never get more money for their books.

    At that point, maybe you’ll agree that that $15, or in this case, $11.50, was pretty fair.

    In any case, please do leave reviews for books you enjoy. If you didn’t like a book, think carefully about why before slamming an author with a one or two star review.

    The ego you save may be mine!

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    I’m Taking over the KUWTA Page Saturday!

    Saturday, July 6, I’ll be running the Keeping up with the Amish Facebook page, from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m.

    It’s going to be a day full of fun!~ Here’s what you can expect:

    1. Mini-Muffin Book Promos of other Amish authors, by Miss Muffet, my rescued former-dog-toy cinnamon roll, throughout the day! She’ll be sharing current or soon-to-release books by some of your (and mine!) favorite authors of Amish romance!
    2. A give-away of a brand new tiny painting of the kitty from my next book in The Heart of the Amish, “Lizzie’s Little Mouse”, which will release from Barbour on April 1, 2025! To win, you just need to give me your email so I can include you in my monthly newsletters. If you’re already done that, just do it again and tell me so. 🙂
    3. Information on where I’ll be doing book signings and author events in the coming months.
    4. I’ll share one of my favorite recipes – my summer go-to! And it will be featured in my next book! Hint: It involves cherry pie filling!
    5. I’ll tell you a little about my novella, “Lucy’s Christmas Sunbeam”, which will be releasing in September as part of a collection with some of your – and my! – favorite Amish authors!
    6. I’ll share a scene from my new release, “Mary’s Calico Hope”, book five from Barbour’s Heart of the Amish series.
    7. I’ll answer reader questions throughout the day. Ask me anything within reason. 🙂
    8. At the end of the day, I’ll reveal the gorgeous new cover for “Lizzie’s Little Mouse” and choose the winner of the tiny painting of Little Mouse, Lizzie’s cat!
    9. Other fun things as they occur to me. See you tomorrow!
    Cinnamon Roll
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    Mary’s Calico Hope Featured in Bookstagram Mini-Tour!

    Do you know what Bookstagram is? I didn’t either; in fact, when my publisher said my book would be featured in a Bookstagram tour, I thought initially she’d said Boojstagram. It sounded very funky and hip. But it’s Bookstagram, and it’s part of Instagram.

    So for several days this week, a number of bloggers of Christian fiction and such will be featuring Mary’s Calico Hope in their blogs! The idea is that they presumably have lots of followers, many of whom will be motivated to buy my book. (Rubs hands together in glee and laughs maniacally)

    Actually, I looked at one of today’s blogposts, which I’ll post a link to here, and was amused by several comments from people who do NOT like cats. Okay so they won’t be buying my book. Oh, well!

    Here’s the link. You can check out all the bloggers by scrolling down on this one’s post and finding the rest. Like and etc. on them for a chance to win a print copy of the book and a $15 Amazon gift card!

    https://www.instagram.com/niks.bookshelf/p/C8rxe18gW_t/?img_index=1

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    Stephanie Wraps up her Three Day Interview!

    Stephanie, the wonderful blogger behind Stephanies Ninth Suitcase (I have to remember to ask her where that name came from!) did a three day interview with me, discussing my writing process, inspiration, career and advice for aspiring writers.

    It all started Monday with Part One – Faith and Fiction. Yesterday we had Part Two – Heart of the Amish. And today Stephanie wraps it all up with Part Three – A Day in the Life!

    Many thanks to Stephanie for her thought-provoking questions. I really had to delve to come up with honest, thoughtful answers. I may have gotten to know myself a bit better through this in-depth process!

    Here’s the link to today’s blogpost. And it’ll take you to the page, where you can find the other two posts as well if you missed them.

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    Stephanie’s Interview Continues Today! Part 2

    Part Two of Stephanie’s interview from StephaniesNinthSuitcase.com, about me and my new release, “Mary’s Calico Hope” is out today!

    In it she asks me about my inspiration for writing Amish romance, and my thoughts about Mary, an older-than-the-typical-romance-heroine, disabled Amish woman, as a hero.

    I really liked her thoughtful questions. And her favorite quote from the book was, “Difficulty is a miracle in its first stage”, which is an Amish saying. I love it!

    Check it out!

    Author Interview with Anne Blackburne: Heart of the Amish

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    Do you read Library Books?

    I’ve had people tell me, apologetically, that they didn’t buy my book; they borrowed it from the library.

    Well, I can’t speak for all authors, but I’m completely okay with that!

    I support public libraries, and the important position they hold in our society. Without libraries, many people would have no access to books, periodicals, reference materials, newspapers, information, computers and the internet, you name it!

    The library bought my book, and now it can spread the joy! So if you read library books instead of buying books, don’t feel guilty on my account.

    I’m just glad you’re reading my book at all!

    Want to do something to help me out? If you liked my book, please leave a review – or several! It really helps authors out to receive positive reviews on Amazon.com, on Goodreads, on Bookbub, and on any website where their books are sold.

    My books are available in many places, including Books a Million, Barnes & Noble, Walmart.com, Target.com, from many Christian book stores, and of course on Amazon.com and from my publisher’s website, Barbour.com.

    Here’s a secret; the cheapest place to buy my book is from my publisher! I guess they don’t have those middleman expenses.

    So don’t worry if you borrowed my book. But do leave a good review if you feel moved.

    Thanks for reading! Thanks for reading me!

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    Thanks to the Oakwood Register!

    For printing this article on the front page of today’s newspaper! Excellent timing, as “Mary’s Calico Hope” released today for Kindle! It comes out in print on June 1 – just in case you were wondering.

    This is the weekly independent newspaper in the town where I grew up, just south of Dayton, Ohio!